Heart riffin’ and how to ‘find’ your voice.

The need to be liked is human freakin’ nature,  but the real, actual truth o’ the matter is, what other people think of us, is none of our bloody business. For ages, I worried about posting about my mumma’s illness publicly because I thought my ability to work would be judged, when I talked about spirituality, I worried about being seen as ‘fluffy’ by the super spiritual, and being seen as ‘woo-woo’  by the muggles o’ the world, the worry was relentless, time-consuming and all encompassing. It diluted my words, tapered my truth and ultimately served no one,  least of all me. 

If worrying about what people think of us is a  limiting cage of our own making, telling our truth is the key to setting us free.

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Telling your truth

There was a time when I said, and wrote, what I thought people wanted to hear.

Because sometimes, it’s easier to simply keep quiet, not rock the boat, to keep the peace, right?

I spoke out recently about something I was NOT cool about. Someone’s behaviour did NOT sit well with me. Turns out that I’m not the only person who doesn’t dig this person’s attitude and behaviour, but it seems that before now, it’s been easier for others to simply accept this person’s attitude and behaviour and laugh it off.

Except, when you’re a girl who’s living your truth, standing totally in your SHE power, if something doesn’t sit well, you speak up.

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